Dealing With Angry Customers

When faced with a disgruntled or angry customer,be listened to, and have their upset and distress
people usually assume that the first thing to do isrecognised and acknowledged.
to fix his or her "problem". Sounds logical, doesn'tWhat most of us are tempted to do is to leap
it? And it is certainly true that you are beinginto solving the problem without giving that
asked to do something practical to solve therecognition. What happens then is that the
issue. But this is only part of the story.customer stays angry, isn't really prepared to
Firstly, it can be a mistake to leap into suggestinglisten to our solution or work with us to solve the
a solution before you have heard everything theissue, whatever it is. We find our suggestions
customer has to say. Sure, it can certainly bearen't heard anyway, and we keep having to
difficult to listen patiently if the customer is "inrepeat ourselves, which can drive us nuts!
your face" with angry complaints! But instead ofA much more effective method is to listen for
justifying, apologising, or moving into problem-fixand acknowledge the angry or upset feelings. Try
mode too quickly, first ask some extra questionssaying something like "I understand you're really
such as:upset about this, and I don't blame you. Let's see
"Can you tell me more about that?" ... "What elsewhat we can do." Or "Most people would be
did you find frustrating? ... "Was there anythingangry if they found that ... ".
else that made you angry?"So when you are faced with a customer
In other words, get ALL the information andcomplaint, the first Golden Rule is LISTEN,
details you can as a first step.LISTEN, LISTEN. Not only to the problem itself,
Secondly and even more importantly, moving intobut also to the customer's feelings.
fixing a problem immediately can actually makeInclude in your response a little summarising of
the whole issue even more difficult to solve! Havewhat the customer has said, as well as
you ever noticed that, if you are faced with aacknowledgment of their angry feelings, and you'll
really angry customer, even if you can fix thebe amazed at how much easier dealing with
problem they don't stop acting angrily? This iscustomer complaints can be!
because they actually ALSO want to be heard, to