Lessons From Nature-The Cycles of Life

Everything is beginning to blossom again--finally. Asinstead of anger and resentment.
they sing, "When April showers may come yourAnger and resentment comes, I think, when
way, they bring the flowers that bloom in May." Ipeople who haven't learned to sing the song are
remember that line from a song that I used tocaught in the storms of life. They don't realize
sing when I was a child.that the fruit of love, beauty and strength will
When we were children we used to sit out on thecome about as a result of these hardships, if they
screened-in front porch on rainy April days andwill allow themselves to look forward to
just pray that it would stop raining. We wantedsomething beautiful at the end. If they are willing
play outside. Sometimes it got so bad that weto become fully engaged with life again after the
couldn't wait. We would put on our shorts and gostorm they will see the fruit themselves.
running out into the rain. My mother wasn't tooWe used to just sit there and wait for the storm
crazy about that though. We quickly learned thatto pass when I was young, but as soon as the
she wasn't through some miraculous form ofrain stopped we were ready. We would run out
mother communication, (something known as theinto the streets with pop- sickle sticks, use them
holler) and we stopped. We still looked outside andas boats and hold races against each other in the
waited though, and then somebody would beginwater that was still running down the gutters. We
to sing that song.used the rains that had been so horrible a few
As we joined in we looked forward to themoments ago as something to derive pleasure
beautiful sunny days in May when we wouldn'tfrom, even as we often use the traces of that
have to worry about the rain. We realized, evenwhich has caused us pain as a source of strength,
as children, that the rain had to come so thatcourage, and empathy toward others who may
flowers could blossom. Little did we know at thebe suffering. Suffering does not necessarily come
time that that was the secret of life. Sometimesso that it may bring out the good in people, but
rain and hardship would have to come, so that wepeople can always, if they are willing, bring out the
could blossom. This is usually the case with thegood in suffering.
beautiful (I mean on the inside) people we know.This only happens, however, when we do as the
These people have usually been through the rainsecond line of the song says: Just keep on looking
and the storms of life. They have had some typefor that sunshine and listen for its song, whenever
of hardship and they have survived withoutApril showers come along. As long as we can do
becoming angry and bitter. In their case it hasthis, we will always prosper. Whomever seeks
brought forth the fruit of patience and kindness,joy, deep down within their heart, will find it.