The Wisdom of You

You know & feel it. You have a wisdom that is inthat the more we sink our chi into the earth, the
the special gifts that only you can give to others.more energy rises up from the earth and flows
These gifts are what I call "The Wisdom of You."through our bodies. So, when you want to call on
I believe that you and I may offer almost thethe trait of Groundedness, allow your life energy
same words or actions to others, but only yourto flow as Earth Energy.
way will speak to some people. Some people canAnother trait is Faith. This trait may begin with
only understand what you offer by the way youexcitement and a strong belief that we will be
offer it... by the way they can connect with youable to share our wisdom and that others will
and maybe not me. If you don't share yourvalue within it. As most of us know Faith may be
wisdom, those same people may never "get thechallenged along the way and we may even lose
message". I was an elementary school principal forour way at times. If our faith is strong, we will
ten years of my 30-year public education career.fairly quickly get back on course and continue to
Every year I would greet every class of studentsmove ahead. A life energy that supports Faith is
with a message about why they were in school. IFire Energy. When our life energy is flowing up
told them that, yes, they were here to learnand forward we are able to remain focused on
reading, math, and all the other subjects;our intentions and others feel this and pay
however, most important was for each of themattention... as we "know the way". Fire Energy has
to begin learning what their gifts were so thatvarious intensities and the raging fire at time is a
when they were grown they could give thembank of coals waiting to flare up again. Use the
back to the world. Many children do have an ideaflow of Fire Energy to support your Faith in your
of what their unique gifts are and they can bewisdom and how it will serve others.
encouraged to develop them, trust in them, andPerseverance is what gives you courage to take
use them. Now that I am a professional coach, Iaction. As Meg Wheatly points out, the Chinese
work with some people who have let life get intranslation is "patience". To persevere involves
the way and know what their they specialknowing how to call on patience to make it
wisdom is and now want to begin sharing it morethrough the tough times. The flow of life energy
openly in their lives. This desire usually comes withthat supports this trait is Water Energy. When our
a realization that sharing your wisdom is "livinglife energy is flowing back and down, we can "go
your bliss", to use Joseph Campbell's phrase, andwith the flow"... whether fast or slow, and find the
they are not living in that place. These folks thengift in all of our experiences along the way. By
begin to have questions... fears and doubts...shifting our energy flow to Water Energy we can
around stepping forward and declaring theiraccept what comes our way, allow it to be, and
wisdom and staying the path to share it. Oh yeah,then move along in the direction of our intention.
there are all those things about how to getFearlessness allows us to be open to what comes
started... like where, when, with what and, ofwithout being so attached that we can't
course can they really make a living by sharingappreciate the learning that comes with it. We can
their wisdom; i.e. will any body pay them for whatavoid defensiveness and remain curious... it is not
they share?"all about us"... it never is. Allowing our life energy
This article is about what is needed to stay theto flow back and up in Air Energy takes us to a
course, both while you are figuring out all thoseplace of curiosity, even wonder. We look around
details, and, even more importantly, once youmore as we are less focused and more
begin and things don't go as fast as you wouldinterested in everything that is going on. We may
like. I chose 5 words and a corresponding lifeeven see new possibilities that were not there
energy that supports each trait. These wordswhen we were in Fire Energy or even in deep
suggest traits we will want to cultivate as weEarth Energy... where we believe we have all the
move in the direction of sharing our wisdom. Theanswers. (No energy flow is better or worse than
trait words actually came from Meg Wheatly'sothers, all have a positive use and a not so
latest book: Perseverance ©2010.positive use. When we pay attention to when
The first trait is Groundedness. We know ourthings are not serving us and those around us, we
wisdom... know it well, and we believe that part ofcan learn to shift the flow and change our
our life purpose is to share it. Even when thingsconnection within ourselves and with others.) Air
are not going well, we can quiet our minds andEnergy serves us well when we feel we are too
feel our connection with this wisdom. From thisattached to the way things need to be for us.
place of knowing, we can reconnect with the partLast, but certainly not least, is the trait of Joy.
of us that supports our moving forward andJoy comes from within us... no one can give it to
staying the course. One of the ways for our lifeus. Joy supports our intentions, allows us to truly
energy to flow supports this feeling ofcelebrate everything that comes our way and is a
Groundedness. There is a life energy, called "chi"wonderful clue that we are on the path to sharing
flowing through each of us. The direction and theour wisdom. Center Energy, where life energy is
intensity of its flows affect our thoughts,flowing all around us and within us in every
emotions, and how we move. So, if wedirection, allows us to be in the moment where all
intentionally shift our flow in different directionsis as it should be. It supports a mood of peace.
we can support the emotions and thoughts weTo support the flow of Center Energy, pause and
choose to support our intentions. The feeling ofbalance your feet beneath your body, allow your
groundedness is stronger within us if we allow ourhead to be in that "sweet spot" where you do
life energy to flow down and slightly forward. I callnot feel it's weight, breathe slowly and just be...
this Earth Energy. We can support this flow ofand feel the joy that comes from feeling your
energy by intentionally feeling the connection withconnection to all of life.
the ground through our feet and by leaning slightlyI encourage you to enjoy and share The Wisdom
forward as we sink our energy deep into theof You!
earth. My 12 year study of Tai Chi taught me