Ways to Manage Stress When All Seems Lost

Have you ever been in the situation whentime, here are five ways you can do to help
everything is pear-shaped? No matter what youyourself to feel better, to stop worrying and build
do, it seems as if you are hitting your headup your energy levels.
against a brick wall and there does not seem a1. Drink more water. Sipping water, or light herbal
way out.tea, during your day helps to keep your brain and
Sometimes this can take the form of a series oforgans hydrated and encourages the lymph
minor daily setbacks, such as a missed promotion,system to work more effectively. Even better,
misplacing your wallet and keys and running lateadd a slice of lemon to your water and sip this
for appointments. Other times, life looks like youthroughout your day, this will help to alkaline your
are running a marathon and ever major obstacleblood.
is in your way - you're in heavy debt, your2. Breathe. Whenever you receive bad news or
partner has been laid-off from work, yourfeel yourself losing it, take a deep breath in
mortgage payments are overdue and to top it allthrough your nose and slowly breathe out. Repeat
you discover you are pregnant.this three to five times. Breathing helps to
When life gets to you, it can feel like you are lostoxygenate your body, calms your mind and
and alone. Your friends are pre-occupied with theirrefocuses your thoughts.
own problems and you do not know which way3. Give yourself a hug, look deep into your heart
to turn for advise or support.and remind yourself you are special and doing
Some people can cope and ride the waves. Theyyour best.
seem to have an inbuilt Pollyanna attitude - no4. Move your body. Stress manifests as blocked
matter what life throws at them, they smile andenergy or pain in your body. Whole body
bounce right back. But if you are like most people,exercises such as yoga, tai chi stimulates your
troubles get you down.parasympathetic nervous system which helps to
Have you noticed when you are low, your energyrelief the pain in your body.
is zapped and stress levels rise. You can't sleep,5. Create sacred space. Try and find a space in
you toss and turn and worry; you eat junk foodyour home, or go somewhere, maybe a park or
and can't be bothered to cook, your partner andby the sea, where you can feel calm and relax. In
children complain you are always moaning andthis place, give yourself permission to cry, shout,
picking on them...it seems as if every where yousit quietly, do anything which helps you to regain
turn, something or someone is in your way andyour center and sense of calm.
everything goes wrong.Life does get in the way of your plans and
Five Ways To Manage Stress When All Seemsdreams. Everyone goes through a period in life
Lostwhere no matter what you do, everything goes
When life gets to you, what can you do towrong and you feel stuck, lost, bewildered. At
manage your stress? How can you hold yourthese times, your energy flags and stress levels
head up and see the blessings, the hiddenrise. When all seems lost, rather than give up and
message in your troubles? How can you keep ongive in, try any one of the above five tips - drink
going and not fall prey to even more bad luck andmore water, breathe deeply, give yourself a hug,
bad news? It seems as if you are a magnet andexercise or go to your favorite thinking spot.
every negative vibe floating by lands on your lapAlthough these tips by themselves wont take
and devours you. No matter how hard you try,away your problems, they will help you feel
you just can't seem to regain your enthusiasmslightly stronger, energized, less worried and more
and constantly feel anxious and irritable.able to cope. Try them and see what difference
If you are going through a particular challengingthey make.